If your apology involves degrading yourself, calling yourself shit or insulting yourself, its not an apology, try again.
Can someone translate this?
Don’t try to guilt people by saying “I’m sorry I fucking suck.” “I’m sorry I’m just the worst and I should die” Because thats not an apology, thats trying to guilt the other person into dropping the subject.
But what if, I genuinely believe I suck and feel the need to apologise for it because I feel like I’m bothering others with my existence ;-;
That’s different, if your in a position when you hurt the other person, and instead of apologizing for your mistake to make the person feel heard, your putting their feelings aside to focus on yours, like they can’t even have a problem with you as a person because your self deprecating.
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