I’ve been trying to send ace positivity as much as possible but there is one thing I still have to share.
Yesterday I said something along the lines of, “as a fellow LGBT+ person-” and 2 things happened. 1. I felt a bit of worry. 2. I felt I was wrong.
Even as I am well aware I am ace and that is ok, there’s this engraved part of me that tells me I do not belong. I try to be positive and some days, I am! I don’t question it and accept it fully, no doubts at all. Other days, I feel like it is wrong to say those things because I know someone out there will agree, no matter how wrong the thought is.
So this is a reminder. We are not ‘faking’ anything. What we feel is very much real. We are not ‘late bloomers’. We are not ‘one time away from changing our minds’. We are not ‘broken’ or ‘wrong’. We are not a new concept, we have existed though history and always will.
Asexuality is real and that’s ok. ❤️
Also a reminder to not be upset at yourself next time you start doubting, because doubt is completely normal and healthy. It’s okay to have off days where you’re not entirely sure of your identity. Everyone has those days. They do not make your identity any less valid, okay? ❤️❤️
Take care, lovelies!!
A beautiful addition. Thanks Spec ❤️
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