There’s a reason I don’t typically wear makeup. And, the rare times I do, it’s simply to make myself feel a bit fancy. I treat my face not as a flawed object to be “fixed” cosmetically, but as a canvas on which to create a work of art.
I never wear “foundations” or any of the heavier products to “flatten” my skin tone, nor do I “airbrush” myself with contouring. Instead, I choose to use the simplest bits of lipstick, blush and eyeshadow to draw attention to what’s already there naturally.
It takes me only about 15 to 20 minutes to put on makeup, on the days I choose to wear it. I will never spend hours in front of a mirror trying to poke, prod at and otherwise conceal the imperfections. Those imperfections make me uniquely me, separating me from the other faces in the crowd.
And, when I get old, I intend to age gracefully, showing my laugh lines and grey hair as proof that I lived a long, full and happy life.
I wear the face I was born with, that has aged with me, and sometimes like to splash a little extra colour because why the fuck not. But I will never apologize for not being some impossibly perfect creature.
And I will teach my daughters that, they too, are a work of art. Because the best way to “win” at life, be it with beauty or anything else, is not to play by everyone else’s rules.